{"id":1574,"date":"2012-01-07T23:51:49","date_gmt":"2012-01-08T06:51:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.darngoodlemonade.com\/?p=1574"},"modified":"2012-01-12T20:08:24","modified_gmt":"2012-01-13T03:08:24","slug":"the-reign-of-the-surgery-queen","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.darngoodlemonade.com\/index.php\/2012\/01\/07\/the-reign-of-the-surgery-queen\/","title":{"rendered":"The Reign of the Surgery Queen"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It is always funny (to me) when I go through the healing process after surgery (seriously I feel like an expert these days) when I start to experience less pain so I do so much more in the day only to find myself completely exhausted after a couple of hours of what seems like little activity. I have left the house the last two days and returned a tired semi-functional being. That comes with the territory. It always amazes me how much surgery saps my energy and how much time it takes to get it back (2 days ago I felt like I should be back at work, today I just want to crawl back into bed).<\/p>\n<p>The other day I was thinking through the evolution of my pre-surgery photos (you can tell which were planned months in advance vs. emergency based on the hospital, which is based on the wallpaper in the pre-surgery waiting room):<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.darngoodlemonade.com\/index.php\/2011\/01\/28\/surgery-is-over\/\" target=\"_self\">Bilateral mastectomy day<\/a>:<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_323\" style=\"width: 510px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.darngoodlemonade.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/01\/surgery-prep.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-323\" class=\"size-full wp-image-323\" title=\"surgery-prep\" src=\"https:\/\/www.darngoodlemonade.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/01\/surgery-prep.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"667\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.darngoodlemonade.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/01\/surgery-prep.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.darngoodlemonade.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/01\/surgery-prep-224x300.jpg 224w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-323\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Before my mastectomy. You can see that they marked up my whole chest, and I am being goofy in my hat.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>I literally found out I was <a href=\"https:\/\/www.darngoodlemonade.com\/index.php\/2011\/03\/29\/surgery-surprise\/\" target=\"_self\">having surgery this day about an hour before I had surgery<\/a>, I called it &#8220;surgery surprise&#8221; (wallpaper):<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_699\" style=\"width: 510px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.darngoodlemonade.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/03\/surgery-number-two.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-699\" class=\"size-full wp-image-699\" title=\"surgery-number-two\" src=\"https:\/\/www.darngoodlemonade.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/03\/surgery-number-two.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"667\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.darngoodlemonade.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/03\/surgery-number-two.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.darngoodlemonade.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/03\/surgery-number-two-224x300.jpg 224w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-699\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">I still have eyebrows.<\/p><\/div>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.darngoodlemonade.com\/index.php\/2011\/05\/13\/just-call-me-queen-of-surgery\/\" target=\"_self\">This surgery was a bit more planned<\/a>. I knew I was going to have the expander removed on Friday and they took it out on Monday (wallpaper):<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_955\" style=\"width: 510px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.darngoodlemonade.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/pre-surgery.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-955\" class=\"size-full wp-image-955\" title=\"pre-surgery\" src=\"https:\/\/www.darngoodlemonade.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/pre-surgery.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"667\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.darngoodlemonade.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/pre-surgery.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.darngoodlemonade.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/pre-surgery-224x300.jpg 224w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-955\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">This hat was so comfy, it was the first one I bought.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Before I had my fourth surgery I had my <a href=\"https:\/\/www.darngoodlemonade.com\/index.php\/2011\/06\/12\/baldy-mcbalderton\/\" target=\"_self\">bald photos taken<\/a>, mind you, I am in a sundress and I am wearing a cotton prosthesis on my right side (which is another way of saying I only had one &#8220;breast&#8221; at the time):<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_1061\" style=\"width: 510px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.darngoodlemonade.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/06\/urban-mandi.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1061\" class=\"size-full wp-image-1061\" title=\"urban-mandi\" src=\"https:\/\/www.darngoodlemonade.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/06\/urban-mandi.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"331\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.darngoodlemonade.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/06\/urban-mandi.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.darngoodlemonade.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/06\/urban-mandi-300x198.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-1061\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">I wore sundresses, with or without the right one. It amazes me now that I did the photos then, but I figured I may get hair while I was recovering from the next surgery.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>This surgery was a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.darngoodlemonade.com\/index.php\/2011\/06\/25\/home-sweet-home\/\" target=\"_self\">latissimus flap reconstruction<\/a> to put the expander back in the right side after I finished chemo:<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_1575\" style=\"width: 510px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.darngoodlemonade.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/surgery-after-chemo.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1575\" class=\"size-full wp-image-1575\" title=\"surgery-after-chemo\" src=\"https:\/\/www.darngoodlemonade.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/surgery-after-chemo.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"667\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.darngoodlemonade.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/surgery-after-chemo.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.darngoodlemonade.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/surgery-after-chemo-224x300.jpg 224w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-1575\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">I officially look like a cancer patient in this one. Three weeks after my final chemo.<\/p><\/div>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.darngoodlemonade.com\/index.php\/2011\/12\/30\/happy-cancerversary\/\" target=\"_self\">Final breast reconstruction<\/a> and I just get goofy:<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_1535\" style=\"width: 510px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.darngoodlemonade.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/12\/zombie-face.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1535\" class=\"size-full wp-image-1535\" title=\"zombie-face\" src=\"https:\/\/www.darngoodlemonade.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/12\/zombie-face.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"375\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.darngoodlemonade.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/12\/zombie-face.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.darngoodlemonade.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/12\/zombie-face-300x225.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-1535\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Zombie face.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Five surgeries in one year, no wonder my plastic surgeon and I know each other so well. He was less than enthusiastic when I stopped by for my post-op visit Friday when he found out about my fever, he wants this last surgical drain out the moment it is ready to come out (they are an infection risk) &#8211; as if I don&#8217;t want it out the moment it can come out. The surgical drain left still attached is placed in my back and my activity level the last two days hasn&#8217;t helped the output go down. I also have been under a bit of stress, which doesn&#8217;t help the healing process much either.<\/p>\n<p>It is a wonder why women avoid reconstruction in addition to treatment, but I don&#8217;t regret it. I am happy with the outcome and it will help me heal emotionally in the time to come.<\/p>\n<p>I think I am going to have to do a series of photos from my eight chemo infusions, I find it interesting looking at the changes that chemo causes in your appearance.<a style=\"text-decoration:none\" href=\"\/index.php?l=womenra-price-gouging\">.<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It is always funny (to me) when I go through the healing process after surgery (seriously I feel like an expert these days) when I start to experience less pain so I do so much more in the day only to find myself completely exhausted after a couple of hours of what seems like little [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1574","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-updates"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.6 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\r\n<title>The Reign of the Surgery Queen - Breast Reconstruction<\/title>\r\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"I was thinking about all of my surgeries this past year. 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